In this way the love of God was revealed to us:
God sent his only-begotten Son into the world
so that we might have life through him.
In this is love:
not that we have loved God, but that he loved us . . . . (1 Jn 4:9-10)
Search as we will and try as we might, we cannot perfectly love God and find God. John is clear in this passage. God finds us. It is “not that we have loved God, but that God has loved us.” Stop the striving. Stop the searching. We have to let God find us. Continue reading